the concept

so here is the list what i am usually do when i dead bored, nothing to do (whatever u name it) but i dont have money to be spent for hedon-thingy (baca : nge-mall)

1. karaokean di kamar (with youtube, cari yang ga ada lirik tapi gak ada suara penyanyinya)

2. aerobikan liat dr youtube (paling susah)

3. tidur

4. masak

5. youtube-an

6. main kerumah temen yang se apartemen

7. and what you read now is also what i did when i bored. writing!

Myths Facts About Introverts :

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.

This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.

Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.

Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.

Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.

Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.

Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.

On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.

Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.

Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.

Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.

Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.

Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.
Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.

Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.

Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.

Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.

Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up

well either is a ‘self-defense’ explanation, but however i am enjoy and nod my head sometimes while read this. for introvert there, you are awesome ;D

seems that being scumbag is your expertise. lets see what next :> 

Hello stalker, hope you’re having a good day :))

Lamaaaa banget aku gak nulis ataupun baca, so… Maklumin kalau gaya nulisnya aneh yaa *atau dari dulu aneh?* :))

Ini bulan agustus 2012, sudah setaun lebih sejak pertama kali nginjakkan kaki di malaysia. It means, I’m not maba anymore! Haha, di akhir agustus nanti aku bakal ngejalanin taun kedua ku sebagai mahasiswa :D

Time isn’t flies fast for me, really. 1 taun ini terasa bener2 apa adanya. Nggak terasa lama, nggak terasa cepet, bener2 1 tahun.
1 tahun yang dilewati out of comfort zone dan berkali kali adaptasi.

Aku ingat gimana berantakannya aku ngatur tugas dan ngadepin ujian di semester 1, dan di semester 2 aku bisa lebih sedikit baik untuk ngatur waktuku. Dimana setiap banyak tugas, banyak tekanan pasti aku tumbang dengan sukses, entah sakit gigi, sakit maag, sakit kepala, demam. Sumpah seumur hidup aku gak pernah ngerasain semua itu kecuali demam, too much pressure, maybe :p

Pergi merantau dalam rangka kuliah, aku ngerasa, dunia yang aku tinggali dalam 17 taun bener2 aman. Disini, banyak banget hal2 yang menurutku nggak wajar, dimata orang lain, well biasa aja. Iya, ngerokok, ngebir, ke diskotek, satu kamar sama pacar itu biasa aja.

‘Ya ampun szal, pergi ke diskotek itu sekarang ya sama aja kaya kamu pergi ice skating, biasa aja’

‘Ya kamu sih ga punya hak, kalau pun mereka mau satu kamar itu hak mereka’

Uhmm, well…
Berkali-kali aku terheran-heran dengan orang2 yang punya open minded (or too open?). Aneh, bener2 aneh.

Anehku, aneh bagi mereka. Sampai akhirnya, aku juga mengerti batas wajar mereka. Being normal here is too mainstream, until I become kinda abnormal, :p
Kalau sekarang2 ada yang berita kaya gituan mah, jawabanku cuma ‘yaudah sih’ atau ‘oh’ saking aku udah biasanya ngedengar yang kayak gitu.

Kalau aku bisa ketemu diriku satu taun yang lalu pasti aku dianggap, aneh. No more innocence?
#np- goodbye innocence - utada hikaru

After 1 year..
Struggling, cry, hope, stress, smile, happiness, relationship, friends, housemates, family, time, problem, sick, college, home. Everything. It happens.
And, now I know more about my self.
Aku sadar masih punya banyak banyak banget kelemahan.
Semoga tahun kedua, aku bisa bener2 memperbaiki sifat jelekku x)

:) thanks for reading.

Hello stalker, hope you’re having a good day :)

”if people talk behind my back, what does it mean? Simple; it means i am two steps ahead of them’

Hmm, sering sih denger quotes2 ginian dan jujur kadang yang nge retweet quotes ini kalau nampang di twitter banyak.

Haters. Umumnya, orang pasti punya haters, dan juga orang buat di ‘hate’. Quotes tersebut bener aja, karena emang, makin tinggi kamu berada makin banyak orang yang iri dan otomatis jadi haters kamu.

Tapi, #ehmm justru kadang2 banyak juga orang yang ngegunain kata2 tersebut sebagai tameng. Bagi mereka, all haters udah pasti iri sama kesuksesan mereka. Ini ironis tau nggak, kalau mereka berpatokan terus sama quotes diatas secara nggak langsung mereka udah nutup telinga dan mind mereka.

Yakin kalau orang ngomongin kamu dibelakang karena prestasimu? Yakin kalau orang jadi ‘haters’ kamu karena kamu baik, ramah, dan sifat2 baek laennya? Yakin kalau orang banyak yang benci sama kamu karena kamu baik, kaya, cantik fabolous dll?

Well, buat beberapa kasus mungkin aja iya. Tapi aku lebih sering nemuin orang2 yang teguh sama quotes barusan karena kelakuan mereka, memang nyebelin. mereka terlalu egois buat mendengarkan dan terlalu rapuh buat nerima kritikan. Akhirnya apa yang terjadi ? Instropeksi diripun enggak karena merasa udah perfect, udah baik jadi orang, pokoknya gak merasa salah.

‘orang yang bener bener pinter gak akan bilang dirinya pinter, sama kayak orang baik’

Wajaaar banget kalau didunia ini ada yang nggak suka sama kita, tapi kalau yang nggak suka bener2 banyak ada dua kemungkinan; 1. Mereka emang iri sama kesuksesanmu 2. Sifat kamu emang jelek dan makanya mereka nggak suka.

So if you think you got a lots of haters, think. Bener nggak karena mereka iri? atau masalah berasal dari sikap kamu ke orang lain? Kalau masih merasa ga ngerti jawabannya, silakan tanya orang yang posisinya netral deh, dengarkan Dan silahkan pikir sendiri.